Over and Over, I've heard people saying that if there are no arguments in a relationship, then there is no love. This a point constantly reiterated in my newsfeed on Facebook. I'm not sure how anyone can equate yelling and name calling with love. Communication is key in a relationship, but that doesn't mean communication in the negative form. I understand that when people argue, they become passionate and reveal feelings and sentiments that would have otherwise remained unknown, however I don't think that arguing represents a positive quality in any relationship.
From experience, arguing detracts so much love from a relationship. There's nothing enjoyable about fighting with someone that you love. That's why it baffles me that there are people in this world who live to argue with their bf/gf. Every little thing turns into a fight, and because they make up, they think it is okay.
I hate to argue because it takes so much out of me. It makes me get out of character when all I want to do is get my point across. Why would I want to yell and get angry, when I can talk and have a normal conversation?
There hasn't been a relationship to exist that has been argument free and I'm not saying that arguments make a relationship bad. I am saying that to believe that a peaceful relationship is an unhappy one, is absurd. If you reach the point that you argue more than you talk to each other, then that is a serious problem.
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