Lately I've seen many people talk about the fact that they're single and also them wondering why they're single. Some people want to avoid being lonely while others just have no idea how to be single or on their own. All they think about night and day is finding someone to love them. I often wonder how many of those people love themselves or how many of those people actually know how to have fun and enjoy life by themselves.
I never understood this deep desire to want to be in a relationship.I can understand wanting to have someone to go out with and spend time with, that can be achieved without desperately seeking the title of boyfriend/girlfriend. Some people jump from relationship to relationship just to avoid being alone. When my last relationship ended, the last thing I wanted to do was start a new relationship with anyone. I don't think people realize how much work actually goes into a relationship. When people are aimlessly moving from one relationship to another, they are bringing baggage with them that ultimately wreaks havoc on the relationships that follow.I don't think that people give themselves enough time to heal after a relationship has ended. There seems to be this constant need to fill a void with another person. I can not count how many times I've seen this behavior on Facebook. I sit back and wonder why people make it seem as if being single is such a horrible thing. Sometimes it's good to be alone and work on yourself and let relationships develop without being the one to seek them out.
All I can say to my single friends is RELAX! The more you stress about being single, the longer you'll be single. Take your time to focus on other things because there's more to life than being in a relationship.
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